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2021.09.26 19:51 Im_your_life Friend accuses OP's fiancé of raping her.
This is a repost. I am not OP. Original in relationship_advice
Mood of the update: situation is messed up, update isn't bad
My (24F) friend (24F) wants me to believe that my fiance (28M) rap*d her
I’m out of town for the weekend, had to go babysit for my sister. My friend knows this and still decided to go to my apartment because she was too drunk to make it to her place. She knew I wouldn’t be there. Her and my fiance barely even talk. They never hang out unless I’m there. But supposedly she still went without even telling me.
My fiance messaged me right away that she was there and that he didn’t know what to do. I told him to let her stay in our guest bedroom. She went to bed and my fiance and I FaceTimed until super late. My friend didn’t tell me she was there until this morning.
She calls me saying that she went to stay at my place last night but had to leave super early this morning after my fiance sexually assaulted her. She swears it happened. After talking to him I feel like it’s possible that it didn’t happen. I don’t want to dismiss my friends feelings but I’ve also known my fiance for over 10 years and know he’s a good guy. I’ve known this friend for a year and I don’t think she’s a bad person either.
My friend said she won’t press charges but just wants me to know what he did. I don’t know who to believe. Of course this all happens 2 months from our wedding. How should I handle this?? How do I know who’s lying??
Some of the comments show that OOP was confused about the situation but would not stand by her fiance if the allegations were true.
Comment by another user: Isn’t it super fishy the fact that she went to your place even though she knew you weren’t there? Why would she go there if she doesn’t even talk to your boyfriend? Was she out drinking by herself? It just doesn’t make any sense to me. That part where she won’t press any charges but she wants you to know sounds more like: I just want you to break up with him based solely on what I’m telling you
OOP's response: That’s how I felt too. If the man I’m about to marry is a rapist then please help me put him in jail? I still don’t get why she went to our place either.
Other commentsby OOP:
Exactly. Why go to my place knowing I’m not there and not even call me to let me know? Especially since you barely talk to my boyfriend? But then I’m like why would she make this whole thing up? Ugh I hate this
He is such a good guy. I’ve known him for 10+ years and even when we weren’t dating he was such already a great friend. I love him and we’re planning our wedding. I really want to believe him.
But at the same time I don’t want to end up being that girl who was so in love that she married a rapist. I don’t know who to believe!
Hey guys! Here’s the update … finally! So long story short, my "friend" made it all up.
My plan was to go to her place once I’d come back in town and try to get her to go get a rape kit gone. Unfortunately I was stuck at my sisters with her kids. So my fiance decided to go to her place without telling me and got the truth out her. He recorded their conversation thankfully.
She admitted that she lied and I also found out that she was the one trying to kiss him multiple times that night before he finally told her to go to bed or he’d kick her out. He told her we have a camera in our hallway and will be taking it to the cops to sue her if she doesn’t tell me the truth.
She messaged me after their conversation and instead of just admitting what she did, she tried to blame me. Saying that these past few months all I’ve been talking about is the weeding and it’s like I don’t have time for her anymore. That her lying about this was the only way for her to get my attention?? I tried to call her after that and she wouldn’t answer my phone calls. I even went to her place after I got back in town and she wouldn’t open the door.
So needless to say she will not be a part of my wedding. I’ve never had a lot of friends and now I’m wondering what’s even the point if all they bring is trouble?
Anyway thank you so much for your ideas and advice! You guys are the best!
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2021.09.26 19:51 throwawaywhtvr me [17m] can’t get myself to confess feelings to a friend [17f]
we’ve known each other for 10 years now but have been friends for only a bit over two, and i’ve liked her since 2019. we’re in the same friend group and although we’re not talking as much as we used to i went to half-prom with her last friday and i realized i can’t keep it from her any longer. i’m afraid that our friendship is going to fall apart and it’s going to be weird between me and my other friends but on the other hand not knowing whether she reciprocates my feeling is killing me. she’s not really open about her feelings, similar to myself so i have no way of knowing and most probably neither does she. shall i tell her? what is the best way?
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I had thought that 4 cups would be less caffeine than I need, which was clearly wrong. (Why do I not feel the effects as much, even when I drink a grande cup of coffee at Starbucks???)
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2021.09.26 19:51 StellarDR I don’t actually mind if Infinity Train never got renewed.
We know the next season would have been a movie, and would focus on Amelia’s takeover of the train. This was shown in Book 4 and those parts were designed as a preview for the movie, which is why fans left the show wanting more, also because Owen said they had ideas for 8 seasons.
But we also know from the AMA that Amelia and Hazel’s story would have been a few seasons long, which I assume means two. So, after the movie we would be getting two more seasons about Amelia. Doesn’t that seem like a lot of time focused on one character for what is supposed to be an anthology?
I love Amelia and want her story to be continued, but what is basically three seasons (Book 5 the movie, Book 6, and Book 7) just seems like a little much for one character when each seasons so far has given us relatively new characters. Also, we don’t necessarily need the story about Amelia’s takeover. Owen Dennis himself said Infinity Train is better when you don’t know all the answers, and Book 5 would’ve given us a lot of answers based on the AMA.
The best thing they could’ve done was make Book 4 about Amelia and Hazel with hints at Amelia’s backstory. You would lose Ryan and Min’s story, but none of us really expected completely new protagonists for Book 4, and were anticipating a book about Amelia and Hazel.
I’m not against fans trying to get the show renewed. I would love the show to come back, but to be honest, I would really only want the movie as a conclusion. Which might be all that gets renewed at first anyway.
You can feel differently than me and I completely understand that. I’ve just been thinking about this a lot lately and wanted to see if anyone felt similar. It’s also me trying to accept the show being over lol.
I’d love to hear your thoughts about this. Sorry for the long rant :/
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